Relationships require effort, commitment, and mutual support from both partners to thrive.
However, sometimes one partner may feel neglected, leading to feelings of frustration, sadness, and loneliness. Neglect in a relationship can be caused by various factors, such as busy work schedules, lack of communication, or personal issues.
If left unaddressed, neglect can have a detrimental effect on a relationship, leading to feelings of resentment and, ultimately, the breakdown of the relationship. Ladies, you should never ignore if you notice these signs in your marriage.
Here are 5 Top Indicators That Show Your Husband Is Feeling Neglected Especially After Childbirth.
1. Your husband develops new friends and interests that keep him away from home.
At first, the excuse might be he is giving you and the newborn some quiet time alone, but in the real sense, he is escaping from neglect at home. In doing so, he has to find reasons to be out late or away from home. Some may put in extra hours at work even on weekends since there is pretty much nothing taking up his time.
2. He becomes, moody, irritable and sometimes complains about being neglected.
These are habits that attention seekers exhibit. If this is something new from your husband, giving him the attention he deserves will bring him back to his normal self in no time.
3. He spends time at home doing his own things on TV, phone or computer and is disinterested in being around you and the baby.
He will go to bed earlier than usual and be fast asleep before you can join him. He can be physically present but preoccupied with other thoughts besides you and the baby.
4. He becomes withdrawn and nothing about you seems to interest him lately.
Men are visual creatures and will notice a lot of things about their women especially physically. If your husband no longer notices your new hairstyle or the new dress, he is probably dealing with his own neglect but working hard to conceal it.
5. He is s3xually frustrated and may result in ma$turbati0n as consolation.
This may be temporary, but it can always create more problems especially when it becomes an addiction. As a couple, you can consult your doctor for advice on how soon normal s-x life can begin.
