With the enthusiasm and determination of youth, you often tend to want to express your personality and protect your point of views. You are a person with strong personalities, and a different way to see things.
But as an adult, you’ll realize that trying to prove that you are right sometimes doesn’t matter. Because true or false is just relative.
It depends on the aspect you see the problem, as well as the specific time and circumstances when the problem occurred. It also depends on the subject of the problem. If they feel okay, then how bad things are, in your eyes they are still very good for them.
So, when you grow up, sometimes you just need to be quiet, watch and think carefully. You consider the problem carefully and mature, with an open view and a more generous heart than you did when you were young.